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Emotional Intelligence: Why We Need to Teach It to Our Kids

Emotional Intelligence: Why We Need to Teach It to Our Kids

 

By Stepheny of FeedFond, Guest Writer

 

More often than enough we, as parents, tend to protect our kids from the complex and less pleasant subjects in life. We think that they are delicate and less sophisticated and therefore incompetent to grasp the emotional difficulties of their domain.

But the reality, kids can absorb and channel an amazing amount of emotions. So with the properteaching, they can be self-aware and learn to recognize and express their feelings.

Kids need to be provided with an open, welcoming, and friendly environment where they will be encouraged to speak their mind freely, share their feelings and openly be welcome to have a fellow feeling for their peers.

This is where Emotional Intelligence teaching methods come in. This is a new method of channeling one’s smartness into recognizing, managing and utilizing emotions in a more productive and progressive way.

It also deals with being able to recognize the emotional state of one’s peers and be able to create an atmosphere of mutual well-being and security.

 

Why Should We Teach Our Kids Emotional Intelligence?

Kids learn the most when they are young. Their minds are like a sponge, growing and absorbing knowledge at a remarkable rate. Their emotional familiarities are helping them to notice, adjust, respond, and produce thoughts and concepts on a constant basis.

Thus it is essential that we equip them with emotional tutoring and training which will vividly improve the quality of their lives. We need to step out of the stereotypical education we have been providing them for ages and branch out to new and improved methodologies.

This will enable them to have a stronger and more relevant outlook to the world that they are about to step out to.

Buying them appropriate toys is an excellent start in this regard.

By teaching kids throughthe emotional intelligence method, we are enabling them to be more aware of their past and present, where they come from, their current environment and how to cope with challenges.

Research shows that young people who have been taught with emotional intelligence methods have been successful in making better life choices and have attained higher grades at school.

As parents, the change starts with us.

We need to find healthier ways of coping with our own emotions, only then can we successfully teach it to our kids. We need to recognize our condition, only then we can begin the change in the right direction.

As we realize and acknowledge the insightful influence of emotions in our lives, we can begin a new way of self-awareness and spiritual wellbeing. It will prepare us better on how to equip our future generations on the path of emotional intelligence.

 

What are the main aspects of Emotional Intelligence?  

Schools are at the forefront of teaching emotional intelligence to our kids, they are more equipped with staff, resources and infrastructure to do the job perfectly. Here are a few methods the schools, and we as parents can focus on to teach our kids to be more emotionally intelligent.

 

Building Social Connections  

Kids need to be taught the importance of being able to build social connections. For that, they need to be aware of their surroundings and the people around them, actively be able to judge their temperaments and be able to find a point through which to connect with them.

Kids need to realize that emotions play an important role when it comes to making and managing social bonds with others. So they need to utilize their emotional intelligence skills to develop and maintain these bonds.

 

Showing Empathy for Others

Kids can show empathy towards others by perceiving the feelings they are sensing, taking their point of view and passing on their viewpoint back to them, all while being strictly non-judgmental.

Reading can be considered to be a simple and efficient way to develop this skill. The best way children can develop empathy is by watching others and trying to incorporate that into their own behavior.

This will make the other person feel understood and that his point of view is valued. This improves the probability of cooperation and support.

 

Self-Regulation

Kids can learn how to regulate and control their reactions through emotional intelligence. They need to be taught that every event in life is an opportunity they can learn from, and not take them as threats.

They need to align themselves with a behavior or an activity because they find it fulfilling, rather than external rewards or reimbursement. These can be playing certain sports or activities such as gardening or playing any instruments.

This, however, is a long-standing process and it requires patience and determination from both the student and the teachers involved.

 

Creating Mindfulness

It’s important to realize exactly how much we are capable of. We must help the kids to overcome any overestimation on their part so they can be fully aware of their aptitudes.

Kids do tend to overvalue themselves, especially the ones who are performing poorly. Many also suffer from low self-awareness. Both of these issues can be solved by raising self-awareness techniques, such as inspire them to ask self-reflective questions.

This will help by making them realize their potential and get their creative juices flowing as they query themselves on different techniques to get the job done.

 

Making an Effort to Listen Actively

Active-listening enables the kids to have a meaningful and cognitive interchange with others. It involves paying full attention to their conversation partners, communicating back the message that they have comprehended through particular body languages and verbal means.

This can invariably improve any means of communication as they will be more prepared and in complete control of their understanding of the issue. Misapprehension can be ruled out as this allows kids to first hear out and fully comprehend what the speaker is saying and then make a response.

 

Final Thoughts

Emotional Intelligence is the new method nowadays to measure how well a person is able to cope with his surroundings and how successful he comes out.

Emotional Intelligence is the ‘ability’ by which feelings are dealt with by the person for adapting to the weight of the contemporary world and guaranteeing optimum achievement.

Therefore we must emphasize on teaching our children with emotional intelligence so they can be well equipped to face any challenges that they will face in their day to day lives.

 

Author Bio:

This article has been contributed by Stepheny on behalf of FeedFond. She is a mother of two and loves to share her experiences in raising them. Check out more of her work at FeedFond.com   

One Response

  1. Really a very good post on the subject. Thank for adding values to the children’s life.

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